To keep the fifth commandment is not only wise, but it adds honor, attractiveness, grace, and esteem to the life of the son or daughter who does so. God makes the honor of father and mother an honor to the child as they pass through life. The two-fold description is first stated as “a graceful wreath to your head (cf. Proverbs 4:9). The picture is of a crown or wreath placed on the head by those who esteem this person’s life. Likewise, such a life is adorned as “ornaments about your neck” might be (cf. Proverbs 3: 3, 22; 6:21).
Submitting early to the refining process of instruction and discipline of parents removes many of the personal habits and qualities that could spoil relationships later in life. To heed the discipline of father and the instruction of mother yields a happy life full of fruitful and friendly relationships. People will be drawn to you and desire your company.
From: Proverbs: A Mentor Commentary by John A. Kitchen (Fearn: Mentor, 2006), p. 43 . Comment at Proverbs 1:9.
